Writing Assignment #1 - Quin Lewis
The "G" Word: Perspectives on Gender from a Queer Woman of Color (784) My gender has been shaped by my education, my family, and being surrounded by Southern culture: my schooling taught me to be “modest” and “soft spoken”, my family insisted that I be interested only in boys, and living in the South caused me to view my gender as a way of serving men and to not be a threat. The strict dress code and the casual bullying through my K-8 education made me hate the “feminine” side of myself. I was raised by white parents and went to a predominantly white K-8 private school where the dress code was enforced more heavily on the girls than the boys. The rules for girls were to not show anything past the collar bone, if one wore skirts, they had to be two inches above the knee, and lastly, do not wear any makeup. On the other end, boys must not grow hair beyond their ears and must wear polo or dress shirts. It was assumed by the school officials th...